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My friend thinks shes pregnant as well but shes only 13 and we r not even sure. She CANT tell her parents or the school. She needs advice

-- Contributed by: Allie

I think my friend is pregnant, we looked at a lot of sites but this one has helped the most so far

-- Contributed by: Leelee

Hannah, our Teen_Mom article has links to resources that might be able to provide you with support. You might also contact the women's resource center in your area and ask them if they can recommend ways to find assistance.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

hey im a soon 2 be teen mom of a little girl and pregancy sucks....for real now i am in high school... and i cant go to most places with my friends just becuz i made the wrong decision at the wrong time... i first told my stepmom and it got spreaded from there (stepmom 22 years old ) ! me and the babys dad werent supposed 2 be seeing or talking to each other becuz my parents dont like him becuz he is a ganster/ thug and drinks loves 2 party me and him were seeing each other then 2 weeks later i found that i was pregant... and now were are seeing about what we can do && ny the way he alwayz tells me u look prego ^&&&& i deny it help please

-- Contributed by: Hannah

Well im pregnant now an i just tolled my mama today and it was b4 skoo and she said i hope u kno wat u got ur self into but then she picked me up early from school and we went a sat at tha park and talked and she wasnt as mad as i thought so then not only did i worry about telling her but when my grandma and grandpa and tha rest of tha family found out what would happend...but they all said they would do there best ta help but they were mad and disapointed ant tha same time....but now im at home waiting ta c what the next thing my mama will say when she gets home....but to all u prego teens its ok theres hope just dnt catch her in a bad mood when u tell her and or try iy in a note...

-- Contributed by: Jade

Heather,

Unfortunately, LoveToKnow Pregnancy is strictly an informational site. We do not connect adoptive families with birth mothers.

Dana Hinders

LoveToKnow Group Editor

-- Contributed by: Danahinders

Hi, I am interested in knowing if you have a need for people that are interested in adoption. My husband and I have been married for 13 years and would love to adopt a baby and give a life a wonderful christian home.

-- Contributed by: Heather Cullins

Sasha,

hopefully your mom will be understanding and sympathetic, but she may be upset at first. It will probably take her some time to adjust to the idea of you having a baby. Make sure you talk to her at a good time when there are no interruptions and you can focus on your discussion. Please read our FAQ about Teenage Pregnancy for more info about being a teen mom.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

i am 15 and pregnant but i will not get a abortion, and im scared to tell my mom please give me advice

-- Contributed by: sasha

Hi Carla,

it's true that many teen moms are good parents. They are able to love their baby as much as older moms. The difference is that many teen moms aren't able to fully provide for their baby or take care of them as well as older moms.

Many teenagers needs the love, support, and resources of their own parents to help them through school, find a job after high school, or go to college. This need for help, and lack of financial resources, makes it difficult for teens to take care of themselves, much less take care of a child. That's why most adults prefer that teens wait to have babies. Teenagers need to live their own lives first and learn to take care of themselves before adding the stress and needs of a baby.

For more information, check out our articles about Pregnancy Statistics Teens and FAQ about Teenage Pregnancy.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

i have a lot of friends that are teen parents and are amazing at looking after there children and love every second. i am also hopeing to be a mother soon even though i am only 14 but im am frightend that the people i love most will turn there backs on me when i need them most. why isit that people think that a teen can not provide a good and happy life for a child? for my point of view a teen parent is just as good as an other parent!

-- Contributed by: carla

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-- Contributed by: chelsea meadows

I think you're right, Jes. Taking care of a baby is a struggle for moms at all ages, but being a teen mom just adds to the stress.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

i think that it would be really scary and frightening to be a teen mom. No teen is prepared to take care of another no matter how much or little they have have had pratice though babysitting or any other practice or experience.

-- Contributed by: jes
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