LoveToKnow Pregnancy:AllComments

From LoveToKnow Pregnancy

Comments

Mary, a lot will depend on how far along you were when you miscarried. If you were late in the pregnancy, it will take your body longer to recover. If you miscarried in the first few weeks, your body may be healed and ready to get back to a normal cycle within a month or two. Check with your doctor before trying to conceive again to make sure she doesn't have any concerns about your health.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

when can i conceive after miscarriage

-- Contributed by: mary wagura

Heather,

you could try contacting an employment lawyer or the woman's resource center in your area. It definitely sounds to me like you were discriminated against, but it's hard to say since every employment situation is different.

As for how you are feeling, please talk to your doctor about potential medications if you are still having a hard time with your feelings. He or she can recommend what medications can be taken while you are trying to conceive.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

Jessica i was also just wondering how long has it been sense your miscarrige? also the medication you have ben put on, can it be tooken during pregnancy? i think some days i need medication to, but dont want to slow down the my chances of geting pregnant again.

-- Contributed by: heather

thank you everyone for the good wishes, specially Jessica. I also hope the best for you and your baby planning. I work at a factory job who is giving me a hard time about missing work, there was a day i had to leave work to go to the ER cause i was bleeding heavy at work, another couple days i was put on bed rest, and then the week i was off due to my miscarriage. My job is set up on a point system where you are pointed for the days you are late, leave early or are absent. I was pointed for each day i have missed due to my pregnancy compalcations, i have also found out about a couple people being aloud to leave early one for a volleyball game another for a club scouts meeting with his son, both of who were not pointed for leaving, this occured the same week i missed for my miscarriage. does anyone know if theres anything i can do about this mistreament at work? i know theres THE PREGNANCY DISCRIMINATION ACT, but iv ben unable to figure who to talk to about this act to see if i have a case.

-- Contributed by: heather

Deb, I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Are you being followed by your physician? He or she will need to make sure that all of the tissue has been removed from your body. After your body heals, you may be able to start trying again once your doctor says you are ready.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

Heather, I'm very sorry that you are going through a miscarriage. Since you are having a hard time, please talk to your doctor or consider seeking grief counseling to help you through this time.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

i am 40yrs old ive jut had a misscarrige i had 3 scans my last scan showed i was nearly 8weeks my baby died at 6weeks ive had heavy blood loss and a lot of clots feel very drained

-- Contributed by: deb jon bookes

This message is for Heather...I had a miscarriage at 11.5 weeks, and I understand how you feel. I too had been to the doctor very recently and had heard my baby's heartbeat (a strong 147)-then I had a small spot of blood appear a few days later. The doctor didn't seem concerned (again I had just seen her), but scheduled me for an ultrasound just to be safe. They discovered that my baby was already dead inside of me, and I walked around like a time bomb for 4 days until I miscarried. I woke in the middle of the night with severe cramping, and lost my baby in my bathroom the same as you. It is completely overwhelming, and I had extreme anxiety (to the point where I needed to be medicated), and felt like my entire world had fallen apart. No one can understand how you feel unless they have been through it themselves, but thre is hope. I have yet to be blessed with another pregnancy, and everytime we think about it I get excited and then terrified because I don't know if I could handle this happening again. But if I want a child (which I do more then anything), I have to choose--be strong or live in fear of the what if's. I know you can make this choice as well...to be strong and try again. I wish you nothing but the best...and understand the way you feel is completely normal, and there are no guidelines to how long you give yourself to be ready. I just wanted you to know you aren't alone.

-- Contributed by: Jessica

im 23 years old, just miscarried this week, i was 9 weeks preg, im not dealing with it well, most of the time i feel like i cant breath and its the end of the world. I want to try again very soon but very scared it will just happen again. i still dont understand what went wrong, i was just at the drs a week before had a sonogram the baby was doing good, had a good strong heart beat. then a week later i wake up to horrible cramps, go to the bathroom and im bleeding and i wipe and my baby was on my toilet paper after wipeing... i cant believe this happen to me...

-- Contributed by: Heather

Sanika,

one miscarriage often has no bearing on future pregnancies unless your doctor has told you that you won't be able to conceive for some reason. Once the doctor has given you the okay to try again, it may still take a few weeks for your body to return to normal.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

HI, Iam 34 Years old lady. Rcently I had a Miscarriage after 12 weeks of pregnancy. While scaned on 8 weeks of pergnancy the baby was in good condition. But while resacan on 12 week my baby heart was not working. I am suffering from pcos can u pls tell me that can I consive again and I dont goes ferther miscarriage.Pls help me. Thanks, Regards, Sanika

-- Contributed by: sanika adav

Maggie,

it's possible to still have hCG in your urine up to a month after a miscarriage, probably longer the further along the miscarriage happens. If you think you could be pregnant again, your doctor might be able to get a more accurate result from a Blood-based Pregnancy Test.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

Hello,

Can you tell me how long HCG stays in your system? I had a miscarriage 4 weeks ago and this morning had a positive pregnancy test.

Maggie

-- Contributed by: Maggie

Kayleigh, did you see a doctor after any of the miscarriages for an exam? Repeated miscarriages are a sign that something's not right with your fertility. Although you were able to conceive in the past, the pregnancies weren't viable. You may have endometriosis or another health concern with your reproductive system. YOu should see a fertility doctor to find out if you have anyfertility problems. Your husband should also be checked since male infertility is just as prevelant as female infertility.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

i have had 5 miscarriages now and at the time i suppose it was a good thing. i was using contraception each time to prevent pregnancy but obviously they wasnt working. i was not financially ready or in a staple relationship, each time was an accident. but now i am married and 100% ready for a baby but its not happening. we are activly trying and nothing is working. it has come to the point where sex is now boring and we feel like giving up. i have become so desperate for a baby i cry when i see other people with babies and sometimes cry myself to sleep. what can i do?

-- Contributed by: Kayleigh

Tiffany, many doctors are now recommending that women with a history of miscarriage take Prometrium during Pregnancy. This is a hormone supplement that may help prevent another miscarriage. Only take it after talking with your doctor about it, and ask him or her if they have other suggestions about how you can avoid another miscarriage.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

I had my first miscarriage in August of 07 In August of 08 I got pregnant and had another miscarriage. Now I am pregnant again and terrified it might happen again. Is there anyway to stop it from happening

-- Contributed by: Tiffany

Miscarriage, because of your age, you should get in touch with your OB/GYN about fertility counseling. They might start you on Clomin to increase your chances of conceiving. Doctors will usually consider a woman to have fertility problems after six months of trying.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks and i have not yet gotten my menstrual cycle. My hubby and I want a baby so bad. I am 39 and dont have much time left to have kiddos...any tips?

-- Contributed by: miscarriage at 8 weeks

Ashley, if you follow your ovulation and time intercourse correctly, you may conceive again quickly. But don't get frustrated if it takes a while since it's not uncommon to take several months.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

well with my first child that is two now it took 9 months after i got off the pill so conceive him but this last pregnancy only took 1 month after going off the pill

-- Contributed by: ashley

Ashley, did you conceive quickly the last time? If so, your chances are good for getting pregnant again without any trouble. But remember that it can take a while for your body to get back on track to a normal cycle.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

i am 24 years old, my husband and I had a some what tubal pregnancy the baby was half way in my tube and half way out, i had my surgery july 1 st and my doctor gave us the ok about how long do you think it would take us to conceive again

-- Contributed by: ashley

David,

it's not unhealthy and won't have any effect on the woman.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

I have a question what happens if lets say someone sperms in a female multiple times would that be bad for the female?

-- Contributed by: david
> Return to article