Pregnant Teens

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The Teen Pregnancy Epidemic

Pregnant teens often feel frightened and uncertain. If you're a pregnant teenager, you may feel like you're all alone. However, teen pregnancy is more common than you may think. The United States has the highest teen pregnancy rate of all developed countries, with over one million teenage girls becoming pregnant each year. More than 95 percent of these pregnancies are unplanned.

Pregnant Teens

Facing the Consequences of an Unplanned Pregnancy

Many teenage girls are terrified when they first discover their pregnancies. Teen mothers often feel depressed as they contemplate the responsibilities of parenthood. It is also very common for teens to worry about the reactions of their friends and family.

Some girls, especially younger teens, try to hide the pregnancy from their parents. However, this is a plan that often backfires. While many parents are initially shocked, most eventually provide their daughters with the support they need. The sooner your parents realize you are pregnant, the easier it will be for them to help you through this difficult time in your life.

Although many teen mothers don’t tell their partners about the pregnancy, the expectant father deserves to know. If you’re afraid to tell him, try writing a letter or meeting him in the company of a supportive friend or family member. If he denies his responsibilities, you can later choose to have paternity established through a DNA test. (However, if you decide to seek child support, you’ll be required to produce proof of paternity.)

Health Risks for Pregnant Teens

Since a teenager’s body is not yet fully developed, a young mother faces additional health risks. Pregnant teens are more likely to experience anemia and preeclampsia than older mothers. They are also more likely to experience premature labor and/or have a baby with a low birth weight.

If you’re a teen mother who is planning to keep her baby, it’s very important to seek early medical attention. Proper prenatal care can greatly increase your odds of having a healthy pregnancy. Your doctor will recommend that you eat a healthy diet, get enough rest, and refrain from unsafe sexual activity. In addition, you’ll also need to avoid smoking, drinking, and/or illegal drug use for the duration of your pregnancy.

Help for Pregnant Teens

While over one-third of all teen pregnancies end in abortion or adoption, many young mothers decide to keep their babies. If you’re planning to raise your child on your own, there are a number of programs that are designed to provide the assistance you’ll need.

Since most pregnant teens don’t have a steady income, you’ll probably be able to receive food stamps, WIC, and medical assistance. Depending upon your location, childcare assistance may also be available. Contact your state’s Department of Human Services office to learn more about available governmental programs.

Many communities have local religious and/or non-profit organizations that provide young mothers with counseling, parenting classes, and other support services. They may also offer diapers, clothes, formula, and other essentials.

In today’s society, education is more important than ever. Finishing high school will dramatically increase your odds of finding stable employment. In fact, a college education is now a prerequisite for many careers. Your school guidance counselor can provide you information on resources that can help you reach your educational goals while raising your child.


 


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Hannah, our Teen_Mom article has links to resources that might be able to provide you with support. You might also contact the women's resource center in your area and ask them if they can recommend ways to find assistance.

-- Contributed by: HollySwanson

hey im a soon 2 be teen mom of a little girl and pregancy sucks....for real now i am in high school... and i cant go to most places with my friends just becuz i made the wrong decision at the wrong time... i first told my stepmom and it got spreaded from there (stepmom 22 years old ) ! me and the babys dad werent supposed 2 be seeing or talking to each other becuz my parents dont like him becuz he is a ganster/ thug and drinks loves 2 party me and him were seeing each other then 2 weeks later i found that i was pregant... and now were are seeing about what we can do && ny the way he alwayz tells me u look prego ^&&&& i deny it help please

-- Contributed by: Hannah

Well im pregnant now an i just tolled my mama today and it was b4 skoo and she said i hope u kno wat u got ur self into but then she picked me up early from school and we went a sat at tha park and talked and she wasnt as mad as i thought so then not only did i worry about telling her but when my grandma and grandpa and tha rest of tha family found out what would happend...but they all said they would do there best ta help but they were mad and disapointed ant tha same time....but now im at home waiting ta c what the next thing my mama will say when she gets home....but to all u prego teens its ok theres hope just dnt catch her in a bad mood when u tell her and or try iy in a note...

-- Contributed by: Jade
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