Best Time to Get Pregnant
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When is the Best Time to Get Pregnant?
Many women ask themselves, “When is the best time to get pregnant?” Unfortunately, there’s no easy answer to this question. While it was once common for women to have children in their early 20s, many women are now choosing to postpone childbearing.
The decision to begin a family is deeply personal. Motherhood is challenging at any age. The best time to get pregnant is when both you and your partner believe you are mentally, physically, and financially prepared for the responsibilities of parenthood.
Becoming a Young Mother
The greatest advantage of being a young mother is increased fertility. Since women are most fertile between the ages of 17 and 25, it is less likely that you’ll have trouble conceiving at this age. If having a family is very important to you, becoming a young mother gives you the largest window of opportunity for a successful pregnancy.
In addition to their increased fertility, young mothers are typically in better physical health than older mothers. This means that women between the ages of 17 and 25 have the lowest risk of experiencing complications during pregnancy. Also, young mothers generally have more energy for the physical demands of childrearing.
The greatest disadvantage of becoming a young mother is that you’re likely to have fewer financial resources than a woman who postpones childbirth. It can be difficult to raise a child on a small salary and meager savings. If you’re still living in a cramped apartment and struggling to repay student loans, it may be a challenge to provide your child with food, clothing, and other essentials.
Many young mothers may have to postpone their personal goals in favor of parenthood. Women who are planning to pursue careers in highly competitive fields may be at a significant disadvantage if they take time off to raise their children. In addition, young mothers often have to sacrifice lavish vacations, expensive restaurant meals, and “date nights” with their partners.
Life as an Older Mother
Some mothers will tell you the best time to get pregnant is after you're established in life. Many older mothers say the most noticeable advantage to delaying parenthood is that having a baby is less of a “sacrifice” at this point in their lives. They’ve already had time to travel, find a meaningful career, build a strong marriage, socialize with friends, and fulfill other important personal goals. This puts them in a better position to tackle the challenges of raising a child.
In addition to being more emotionally prepared for parenthood, older mothers are often better able to financially provide for their children. Since they also typically have fewer debts and more assets, older mothers can more easily afford piano lessons, dance classes, and other nonessential extracurricular activities for their children.
The greatest disadvantage to postponing childbirth is declining fertility. A woman’s odds of conceiving begin to decrease after the age of 25, with the most dramatic decline occurring after the age of 35. A woman in her 40s has a 50 percent chance of becoming pregnant.
When older women do become pregnant, they often require close medical supervision to ensure a healthy delivery. For example, women over the age of 35 have a higher risk of developing diabetes and high blood pressure during pregnancy. As a woman ages, her risk of having a baby with Down syndrome or other type of chromosome abnormality also increases.
Choosing Your Best Time
The best time to get pregnant is different for every woman. Take a look at your life, and ask yourself if you're ready to welcome a baby into it. Are you financially and emotionally stable? Do you have a support network to help with the challenges of being a parent? Can you commit to a lifetime of caring for and loving a child? If you're ready, this may be the best time for you.
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Megg, you should start by tracking your ovulating, either through daily temperature readings or using an ovulation predictor that can help you determine your most fertile time.
-- Contributed by: HollySwansonHey! I just wanted to know....I have never had a regular period in my life and I got pregnant at 16 oops! but now my husband and I are trying again to get pregnant and I want to know will this effect our chances? How are other ways we might try to get pregnant?
-- Contributed by: MeggHi Tonya,
since many women start to experience a drop in their fertility after age 35, you will need to be proactive in trying to get pregnant. You might want to start with a Fertell test for both you and your husband. This can give you an accurate idea of any infertility problems you might face.
Next, you'll want to talk to you OB/Gyn about how aggressive you want to be. You may look into using fertility drugs, IVF, or intrauterine insemination earlier than most women who often wait up to a year before trying assisted reproductive techniques.
-- Contributed by: HollySwansonThis page has been accessed 26,049 times. This page was last modified 17:10, 10 April 2006.
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